me(me) and my girl

tell us about the first time you met and your first impression of him/her:
i honestly cant remember the first time we met; it wasnt a love-at-first-sight kind of thing. what i can do is describe the earliest memory i have of her: back in form 2, she was a short, skinny, bespectacled lil' lass (still is - but with a whole lot more sexy) who kept asking me to do my prefect duties - and i kept running away from her cos i don't like doing duty =) i think she had to bribe me with sweets to actually stay at my spot.

what’s a weird habit or quirk that s/he has?:
as displacement activity while chatting she's always preoccupied with performing self grooming tasks such as shaving her legs, clipping her nails, removing underarm hair, etc...

what makes him/her happy?:
achievement. not only in the sense of results and academics, but when something she's fought for comes through: i cite the various events she's helped organised as an example.

what makes him/her sad?:
when her friends misunderstand/misintepret her kindness. rawrrr.

what makes him/her angry?:
backstabbers. on a more personal note, when i wake up late/oversleep and miss a date. =(

what excites him/her?
haha anything the normal human being would find gross or disturbing. "omg dead body SO COOLLLLL"

tell us something funny about him/her:
she loves her cats to the point of ridiculousness; often making baby cooing noises to them while they glare at her wondering why the hell she woke them up from their catnaps. =) yeah, then they'll scratch/bite her and she'll laugh saying the cats are so lovable. =_=

what’s s/he like at home?:
comfortable, relaxed and happy in a pair of shorts and a t-shirt. she loves to cuddle up in bed buried under the covers hugging her bolster while her cat sleeps on the foot of the bed.

what’s s/he like at work/school?:
serious, determined, energetic.

describe his/her room:
its neat, spacious with everything in its right place. her bed is soft with a huge comforter and cat fuzz, next to a bedside table that has her glasses and bedtime reading books, often an Asterix comic or two around. her clothes are neatly folded in her cupboards while her desk is cluttered with bits and pieces of stray papers.

what’s his/her best friend like?:
her best friendS more like. they remind me most of the bunch of girls from sex in the city - supportive best friends all watching out for one another in an unfriendly place, complaining about guys all the way.

do you know who s/he hates the most?:
she hates it when people mark her as a rival @ ash and gary from pokemon.

have you met his/her exes?:
ex-crushes yes, they're a fine bunch of people but obviously im the more attractive one =)

do his/her parents like you?:
i hope so!

what’s the first thing s/he would do or say if s/he fell down and scraped their knee:
"SHIT! *furiously blinks back angry tears* why i so malang wan? aaargh pain. sigh."

what would s/he do in an emergency situation with other people involved?:
be the one comforting the others, being generally optimistic while looking for a way out.

which shop would s/he spend the most time at in a shopping mall?:
i dont think there's a particular shop that she'd be interested in. i would say... the bookstore?

what would s/he have for a typical breakfast?:
a mug of milo with oats, some vitamins, some Usana.

where would s/he want to go for dinner?:
anywhere honestly, but ideally chinese food, with italian being a close second.

what kind of movie would s/he choose at the cinema?:
depends on her mood. if she's feeling all deep, an oscar-like movie; if she's feeling stressed, a mindless comedy; but more often than not action movies catch her eye.

describe his/her taste in music:
erm, bits and pieces of what she's heard without any particular favourites. she enjoys instrumentals and movie soundtracks; melodies that provoke emotion.

if s/he wasnt going out with you, who would s/he be going out with?:
NOBODY RAWR. sigh nolar, probably there will be a lot of people interested to take her out for dinner.

what item in his/her wardrobe would you like to burn:
all her short skirts, and that one blue/pink shirt with the battered collar.

what is s/he good at?:
she's an amazing, loyal, caring and loving friend who'd stand by you no matter what happens. her love for her friends and family keeps her strong and keeps her motivated to keep going on. she's great at handling people, dealing with their emotions and concerns. she writes well too and has a good eye for design!

what is s/he totally horrible at?:
singing...

what’s something about him/her that is annoying/infuriating?:
the way she absolutely refuses to have anything to do with onions and garlic. healthy vegetables la dar!

what’s something that you two fundamentally disagree on?:
the heart vs the brain

what’s something that you two agree whole-heartedly on?:
abortion (as in it's bad)

is s/he possessive?:
nope, that's what's so great about her.

why would s/he succeed in life?:
because she will tenaciously fight her way for what she wants without ever backing down.

what is the coolest gift that s/he has ever given you?:
its a tie between the white striped shirt, my favourite bodyglove pencil case, and a copy of Netter's Atlas of Anatomy.

what is s/he obsessed with?:
me?

what does s/he avoid at all costs?:
cigarettes

what does s/he spend the most money on?:
food and clothes and credit to call me!

describe his/her typical sunday:
i'm assuming this is her typical sunday back here: wake up in bed late, stretch lazily, wonder vaguely where cats have gone to, check phone for messages, head to the bathroom to wash up, head downstairs to go out for brunch with family, come back and online the whole afternoon/read a book if she gets bored, go to the pasar malam with me for laksa in the evening, watch a good movie at night, sleep late messaging me.

why would s/he be dangerous?:
she can really hold a grudge against you, plotting vengeance against you if you'd ever do her any wrong.

tell us about a time s/he looked absolutely gorgeous:
there was a time when i looked into her eyes to see sparkles of happiness, mischief and excitement in them. her eyes are just so amazingly beautiful and emotive.

what’s something about him/her that would surprise all of his/her friends?:
lol cannot say

what do you love most about him/her?:
i love the way she makes me feel safe.

the biggest lesson you have learnt from loving your partner:
true love never dies despite everything. true love is always worth fighting for. true love is worth waiting for. true love means nothing of the Hollywood movie stereotypes and everything about self-sacrifice.